Overview: How to stop child support legally ... "Doctrine of Estoppel"
What attorneys DO NOT TELL you : This online web site is strictly informative about state applicable laws and historic case law which enable a parent with child support obligations to LEGALLY stop all forms of child support using the "Doctrine of Estoppel."
Some individuals may consider this web site a tool on "how to become a legal deadbeat" parent and be subject to extreme criticisms, but this information is being published to ACT as a deterrent to those parents who seek to control custody of children as a manipulation tool and/or use child support in the form of an "alimony ruse."
The doctrine of "Estoppel" is a legal principle by which a claimant may be prevented from asserting a legal right (child support, etc) or depending on a set of facts to support a claim if that claimant has said or done something that contradicts his current claim. This doctrine attempts to avoid injustice or harm to one party due to inconsistencies of another party. Although there are several forms of estoppel, a doctrine of estoppel generally involves a promise or representation by one party that influences the behavior of the second party, who relies on the veracity of the promise or representation. For example, if a dog breeder agrees to give a customer a free dog, he cannot make a claim for the price of the dog six months later. The doctrine of estoppel prevents him from asserting his otherwise legitimate right to payment for the dog due to the representation that he made to the customer that the dog would be free.
When you have a parent-child relationship that is totally "destroyed" by a parental alienator, and you come to realize that the child support and/or college cost you are legally required to pay per court order, has no bearing or effect on re-establishing a guiding relationship for you and your child, then one must conclude that your court ordered obligations will produce no positive results except that you are a "funding source" to the benefit of the parental alienator and their inconsistent "estoppel" activities.
Unfortunately, I am often asked about termination of parental rights in situations about fathers who don't want to pay any more child support and want to relinquish parental rights to get out of it; and mothers who want to find a way to terminate the father's rights to get him out of her life.
When child support is entered as an order for children in the family court system, it is entered with the intent of having both parents stay in the child's life as a permanent fixture and therefore, children who are VICTIMS of divorcing parents, have the balance of both parents as guidance in their respective lives. This site wants to encourage healthy parenting relationships for the children with both parents involved.
Children suffer in many ways when parent's get a divorce. Most children suffer from the lack of financial resources
due to a split family, and/or no educational support orders to assist a child of divorcing parents with college
tuition, expenses, costs, etc, in that maybe such education plans were possible before divorce or separation. States recognizing such loss of resources have instituted addition child support measures above and beyond the normal child support years to include support orders for children who are planning for college to be paid till the child reaches age of 23-26 years. The add-on mandated educational support orders significantly raises the financial stakes for parents who are victims of a "scrupulous" ex-partner engaging in tactics of aggressive parenting of the child(ren) in order to main a selfish, manipulating, alienating form of control of the child to induce them to serve the interest of the selfish parent.
Some individuals may consider this web site a tool on "how to become a legal deadbeat" parent and be subject to extreme criticisms, but this information is being published to ACT as a deterrent to those parents who seek to control custody of children as a manipulation tool and/or use child support in the form of an "alimony ruse."
The doctrine of "Estoppel" is a legal principle by which a claimant may be prevented from asserting a legal right (child support, etc) or depending on a set of facts to support a claim if that claimant has said or done something that contradicts his current claim. This doctrine attempts to avoid injustice or harm to one party due to inconsistencies of another party. Although there are several forms of estoppel, a doctrine of estoppel generally involves a promise or representation by one party that influences the behavior of the second party, who relies on the veracity of the promise or representation. For example, if a dog breeder agrees to give a customer a free dog, he cannot make a claim for the price of the dog six months later. The doctrine of estoppel prevents him from asserting his otherwise legitimate right to payment for the dog due to the representation that he made to the customer that the dog would be free.
When you have a parent-child relationship that is totally "destroyed" by a parental alienator, and you come to realize that the child support and/or college cost you are legally required to pay per court order, has no bearing or effect on re-establishing a guiding relationship for you and your child, then one must conclude that your court ordered obligations will produce no positive results except that you are a "funding source" to the benefit of the parental alienator and their inconsistent "estoppel" activities.
Unfortunately, I am often asked about termination of parental rights in situations about fathers who don't want to pay any more child support and want to relinquish parental rights to get out of it; and mothers who want to find a way to terminate the father's rights to get him out of her life.
When child support is entered as an order for children in the family court system, it is entered with the intent of having both parents stay in the child's life as a permanent fixture and therefore, children who are VICTIMS of divorcing parents, have the balance of both parents as guidance in their respective lives. This site wants to encourage healthy parenting relationships for the children with both parents involved.
Children suffer in many ways when parent's get a divorce. Most children suffer from the lack of financial resources
due to a split family, and/or no educational support orders to assist a child of divorcing parents with college
tuition, expenses, costs, etc, in that maybe such education plans were possible before divorce or separation. States recognizing such loss of resources have instituted addition child support measures above and beyond the normal child support years to include support orders for children who are planning for college to be paid till the child reaches age of 23-26 years. The add-on mandated educational support orders significantly raises the financial stakes for parents who are victims of a "scrupulous" ex-partner engaging in tactics of aggressive parenting of the child(ren) in order to main a selfish, manipulating, alienating form of control of the child to induce them to serve the interest of the selfish parent.
If you are reading this web site, you are here either because you likely are a victim in a "high-conflict" divorce custody proceeding, or are a recipient of a business card referring you to this site, or an attorney at law seeking information/case law on subject matter that can get you disciplined from the state bar, for advising clients on actions that would be considered - "Not the best interest of the Child."
While the US government has mandated federal child support laws with the implementation of enforcement, and incentives at the state levels, most family court systems only concern themselves with the financial support enforcement aspects and do not get involved in parenting and custodial rights enforcement which could lead to emancipation and/or Termination of Parental Rights (Relinquishment for voluntary) petitions for removing parenting liabilities and removal of current and valid child support orders pursuant to most state laws under emancipation and termination of parental rights.
Yes. Based on the paragraph information contained above, valid child support orders can be legally removed or vacated based on court petitions filed in accordance with statutory state laws of your child's resident home state. It is important for custodial and non-custodial parents to understand this concept that is not explained by attorneys in great detail.
While the US government has mandated federal child support laws with the implementation of enforcement, and incentives at the state levels, most family court systems only concern themselves with the financial support enforcement aspects and do not get involved in parenting and custodial rights enforcement which could lead to emancipation and/or Termination of Parental Rights (Relinquishment for voluntary) petitions for removing parenting liabilities and removal of current and valid child support orders pursuant to most state laws under emancipation and termination of parental rights.
Yes. Based on the paragraph information contained above, valid child support orders can be legally removed or vacated based on court petitions filed in accordance with statutory state laws of your child's resident home state. It is important for custodial and non-custodial parents to understand this concept that is not explained by attorneys in great detail.